What is Help?
Help is cheap.
What does it mean to you when someone says, “Can you help me…”?
What does it mean to you when someone says, “I want to help you…”?
How far are you prepared to go to help someone?
Do you keep helping them once they reach your level?
What do they owe you for helping them?
How do you feel if they keep going after you’ve helped, and they become more successful than you?
How much input do you expect into their life after you’ve helped them?
Would you give your help anonymously?
Help should be free and unconditional.
If it’s not – then you shouldn’t have given it in the first place, because it’s not help, it’s a contract.
Terry